tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-65864165580406017932024-02-06T21:37:11.343-08:00The Bradley HomeAnonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09873535839987293529noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6586416558040601793.post-51976174706670573902014-12-08T17:28:00.000-08:002014-12-08T17:28:43.085-08:00A test of patience<div style="text-align: center;">
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<span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><b>First of all Jason and I want to wish each and every one of you a very Merry Christmas! We hope and pray that throughout this holiday season you will be richly blessed with God's blessings. While we have yet again had a difficult year, we believe in the power of Jesus Christ and will continue to believe in the hope, peace, love and joy that he brought to our world! </b></span><br />
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<b><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">While counting how many days we have until Christmas...which normally leads to a conversation about Santa... one of my students shouted out on the top of his lungs "The real reason of the season is Jesus Christ! We don't need presents we need his love!" PREACH IT BOY, PREACH IT:) Loved this great reminder from the mouth of a babe! </span><span style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Be sure to find time to celebrate the real reason for the season! </span></b><br />
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<span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><b>I'm sure by now many of you have been wondering where we are with our foster care process...I apologize for the delay of this post, God has really been testing our patience over here! This has been a month of many emotions! Of all things that could be holding up our opportunity to welcome a child into our home, we are waiting on our finger prints to be cleared. Yes...finger prints of a teacher and public safety officer!!! We have been waiting now for over a month:( This month has been filled with excitement, anxiousness, nervousness, frustration and confusion! We have on several occasions wondered why we yet once again are in a holding period. There have been times of great frustration where we shout out to God in pure wonder. We continue to trust in God's plan and understand that there is a reason for everything. (You all know me though and I am a planner...the agency said 3-4 months...so when we are approaching month 5 you can only imagine the impatience that I am beginning to feel!!) We know that God will bless our family with a foster care child or child of our own (through fertility assistance or adoption) in his due time. There is no reason to rush this huge life style change...but we are so excited! Maybe his plan was to allow us just one more stress free vacation to Florida and start our new year with a bang!</b></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><b>Please continue to pray that these finger prints are cleared so that the rest of our application can be processed by the new year! As 2015 quickly approaches we wish you all good health and happiness. We will keep you posted as we hear more!</b></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><b>Blessings,</b></span><br />
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WOW! It is hard to believe but something is finally going in the right direction for our home:)<br />
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First and foremost we cannot begin to <b>THANK YOU</b> enough for all of the phone calls, e-mails, messages and words of encouragement as we embark on this journey. We do not know what God has in store but have faith that he will lead us to a fulfilled path of with this process!<br />
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Our foster care application has been accepted, we have been assigned a licenser and our background check forms have been sent! (Those of you kind people who have agreed to be our background check informants best say what you need to say! J/K) Yes, this foster care idea is becoming a true reality!<br />
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On Tuesday we met with our licenser to go over many legalistic details that foster care entails. I have a stack of paperwork about 9 inches think that I have been reading for the last few weeks. I have to say that after today I am up to date on any and all information you might need to know about foster care!! After a quick home visit our wonderful licenser has approved out home for 5 children...YIKES...yes I said 5:) Don't any of you be getting your hopes up...we are keeping our application to 1 child for now, with the possibility of a sibling group if the timing is right! We have signed up for the classes we need to take and are in the process of getting documentation to DA Blodgett. Once all of our i's and t's have been dotted and checked we will be good to go. <br />
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<b>Hopeful for a child in our home by the beginning of the year!</b><br />
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With that being said I know there have been many questions about our decision so we have decided to answer a few:)<br />
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As many of you know we have struggled with infertility for the last two years. After month after month of disappointment we are ready to some exciting changes. Foster care has been on both of our hearts for the last year but we were always waiting for the "its the right time" call. Well, as we all know there never is going to be a right time to do something like this...so why not now? We are excited to bring love, hope and joy to a child's life. Hoping to change that child's life forever...no matter if they return back to their parents or remain with us!<br />
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Just as if we had a child of our own, our foster care kiddo will be welcomed into a safe/loving day care facility. I have already been doing my research on day care facilities in the area and have our name on a few waiting lists. There are even a few day cares that have openings for our foster care kiddo when they get here should we choose them! To help our foster care kiddo become adjusted to our home both Jason and I plan to take some time off from work (2 weeks combined) to help with this transition.<br />
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As always please PRAY for peace and guidance as this process progresses...especially when we are placed with a foster care kiddo. For those of you who feel the need to "get" or "do" something for us here is a suggestion list from a foster care blog (referenced below)<br />
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<li style="border: 0px; font-family: inherit; font-style: inherit; margin: 0px; outline: 0px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;">Gift cards to a variety of retail stores (Foster families often take children in a “moment’s notice”, and may need to run out and grab a car seat, clothing, and other essentials for taking care of children.)</li>
<li style="border: 0px; font-family: inherit; font-style: inherit; margin: 0px; outline: 0px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;">Gender neutral items (A child of any gender could walk through our door at any moment)</li>
<li style="border: 0px; font-family: inherit; font-style: inherit; margin: 0px; outline: 0px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;">Gift cards to restaurants, zoo passes, movie tickets, or other entertainment venues. Sometimes, actually often, a two parent home with no children instantly turns into a two parent home with three children. Eating out, going to the movies and other forms of family entertainment can get expensive with a large family.</li>
<li style="border: 0px; font-family: inherit; font-style: inherit; margin: 0px; outline: 0px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;">Children’s hygiene necessities (Often, families are bombarded with clothing, toys, and other nice gifts, but they may not have a supply of pediatric fever reducers, pain medicines, toothbrushes/toothpaste, or other hygiene products.)</li>
<li style="border: 0px; font-family: inherit; font-style: inherit; margin: 0px; outline: 0px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;">Photography Packages (Professional photography can get expensive. Consider going in with other friends/family members and purchasing a photography session. </li>
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We also would encourage you to all check out this website as it has a lot of great information for how to support those who are on the foster care journey. This woman is an amazing writer and shares her TRUE story with a heartfelt approach!<br />
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http://barrentoblessed.wordpress.com<br />
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Again, THANK YOU all for your support and encouragement...looking forward to embarking on this journey with ALL of you!<br />
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Blessings to you all!<br />
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Jason and AllysonAnonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09873535839987293529noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6586416558040601793.post-72186840652195254862014-08-22T20:03:00.002-07:002014-08-22T20:03:29.147-07:00Its has been WAY to long<span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Hello Friends!</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Last January I vowed to you all that I was going to write more...well look what happen...life! I seemed to be so absorbed with school, doctor appointments and then summer vacation that I left you all hanging! </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Sooo what has the Bradley household been up to the last few months!?!? Two words...<b><span style="color: red;">Doctor Appointments</span></b>! UHG! Since February of this year I have had at least two appointments a month :/ </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"> We are approaching two years since I had my miscarriage and not a day has gone by that we don't think about, hope/pray or even dream about our future family. This has not come easy for us...actually has been extremely difficult and heartbreaking at times for us! </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">October 18 2012- <b><span style="color: red;">Miscarriage</span></b></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">November 2012- A large dermoid <span style="color: red;"><b>cyst</b></span> <b><span style="color: red;">was discovered on my right ovary</span></b>.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">February 2013- <span style="color: red;"><b>Cyst was removed</b></span> and we were encouraged to begin trying to expand our family right away.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">One Year Later....</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">February 2014- After a year of trying on our own with no intervention I went into the doctor to see what kind of assistance they could provide for us. At this time I chose to stay with my <span style="color: red;"><b>regular OBGY </b></span>as opposed to the fertility clinic.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">March 8 2014- <span style="color: red;"><b>Infertility testing</b></span> for both Jason and Allyson. Thankfully all tests came back normal; however, this was also frustrating because it just made no sense as to why we were not getting pregnant. With much prayer and consideration of our options we chose to pursue Clomid, which is a strong, highly used fertility medication.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">March 2014- Round #1 Clomid = <b><span style="color: red;">Negative Pregnancy Test</span></b></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">April 2014- Round # 2 Clomid = <span style="color: red;"><b>Negative Pregnancy Test</b></span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">May 2014- Round #3 Clomid = <span style="color: red;"><b>Negative Pregnancy Test</b></span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">June 2014- Decided to stop the climid treatment and seek assistance from the Grand Rapids fertility center. We were diagnosed with <b><span style="color: red;">Unidentified Infertility.</span></b></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">July 2014- Round #1 Fermara with a trigger shot mid cycle = <b><span style="color: red;">Negative Pregnancy Test</span></b></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">August 2014- Round # 2 Fermara with trigger shot mid cycle AND IUI= <span style="color: red;"><b>Negative Pregnancy Test</b></span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Needless to say we are tired. We are frustrated. We are confused as to why nothing seems to be working; however we do have faith and strongly believe that God WILL provide us with a little child...maybe just not now...on his timing not our timing. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">As hard as these words are to swallow we have also been considering other options along this entire journey. We have looked into adoption, foster care and even further fertility center treatments such as injectable shots and IVF. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">As much as I thought my heart was going to lean towards <b><span style="color: red;">adoption</span></b>, we quickly discovered that this is not the right option for our family. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><b><span style="color: red;">Injectables and IVF</span></b> is still on the table, should it need to be an option, FINGERS CROSSED THAT GOD HAS ANOTHER PLAN:) We are going to proceed with other treatment options for now. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">However, <b><span style="color: red;">foster care</span></b>...well that one got us both thinking!</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">We are very happy to let you all know that we have submitted our foster care application with DA Blodgett and have begun the three month licensing process! We will anxiously await a child (6 months-5 years old) to walk through our door step sometime in December or there after. Jason and I have both seen a lot of neglect and abuse in our careers and we really feel compelled to try to make a difference in some of these kids lives...even if it is for only two weeks...or a year. We will welcome any one of these kiddos into our home, treat them as our own but pray for reconciliation with their own birth parents. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">In the mean time we are asking that all of your <b><span style="color: red;">PRAY, PRAY, PRAY</span></b> for our family. This is a huge decision but we feel very positive and strong about it. No decisions like this are easy...or smooth. There will be bumps in the road, but we have a strong support network and trust in the lord to help us get through this time in our life. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">So there you have it:) The Bradley's are continuing on the journey to becoming parents, throwing a little twist in there as well! No one ever said the straight and narrow road was the best traveled...we like things a little different! Can't wait to share more about our journey with you all!</span><br />
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<b><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"> I come to you today with this exact question...a question that weighs very heavy on my heart today. I am going to try to keep this post as positive as I can, but want you to know what is going on in our lives today! As you all know we have had a really rough 18 months and were VERY hopeful for a HAPPY and HEALTHY 2014... </span></b><br />
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<b><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Unfortunately, God had different plans and we have found ourselves falling to our knees in much needed prayer this week!</span></b><br />
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<b><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">On Sunday February 9th, just a little over a week ago, Grandpa Bradley was admitted to the hospital for what we were hoping was going to be a quick stay for some hydration and a blood transfusion. We had known that these were some of the possible side effects of the chemo and radiation. </span></b><br />
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<b><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">At that point Doctors were saying that we had a few months of time to treasure with our precious Grandfather, Dad (Denise's father) and Husband (Grandma and Grandpa have been married for 60 years!). Obviously this was a hard pill to swallow! We had found ourselves in this exact same situation just a year ago with Uncle Denny. We were devastated, hurt and even a little angry! It felt like our hearts had broken into a million pieces. Why God, Why! </span></b><br />
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<b><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">At this time I am asking, no who am I kidding... BEGGING, my prayer warriors to cover our home and family in a blanket of prayer. No, this is nothing something that can be changed but we have many difficult weeks, months and even years ahead as we prepare to loose our Grandpa. Grandpa Bradley has always been a father figure to Jason so this is extremely hard for him. (Not to mention that this will be the 3rd major death in a year for us) I am trying to be the best support system that I can be to him, but I too will need prayers for strength and courage as we embark on this upcoming journey. I am continually comforted by the scripture in Matthew 5:4 that states "God blesses those people who grieve! He will comfort them all!" I ask and pray that God provides comfort to our hearts and minds as we prepare to grieve.</span></b><br />
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09873535839987293529noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6586416558040601793.post-59267999471584866272014-02-02T12:35:00.000-08:002014-02-02T12:35:13.831-08:00I believe...<span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">As I have shared with all of you, over one year ago on September 18th 2012 Jason and I experienced a miscarriage of our first child. I was 11 weeks along and as expected this rocked our world. All of our hopes and dreams seemed to come crashing down in a matter of two hours in the Emergency Room. It took many, many months for us to be able to come to terms with the reality of the situation and face the rest of the world....and we still have no child so that has created a whole new journey:) I am finally now able to sit here and share our story with you, not because we want sympathy or even prayers but becuase we KNOW there are others out there that have been in this situation or are going through this situation and feel the pain and hurt that we felt. We didn't have the support network that we now have becuase we were unwilling to share our story. I want others to know that all of those feelings that you might be feeling or have felt are ever so normal, real and TRUE but I am here for ANYONE that needs a listening ear.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">I also just came home from an amazing woman's retreat at Camp Geneva, THANK YOU JULIE for inviting me, that has re-ignited my fire and flame to keep moving forward and put all of my hope, fears and faith in God and God alone! He has a plan for our lives and unfortunately we do not have a right to plan our own path or a say in these plans....but he does! Sure, it is easy to say these words but I am truly going to try to live by these words for the next months to come. I do not know the path that God is going to place our family on; however, I do trust that if my faith is in him and I can believe in his miraculous powers that he WILL get us through these trials and tribulation! </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Of course, THANK YOU GOD, I then see a post from a friend of mine entitle <a href="http://www.momentsaday.com/15-lessons-learned-from-miscarriage/">15 Lessons Learned from a Misscarriage</a> :) Funny how God puts things that are on your heart in front of you at the same time! For those of you who are interested I highly suggest that you read the article...it is empowering and SO REAL! I appreciate real talk as opposed to those that tip toe around such real issues!</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Tomorrow is Grandpa Bradley's last day of radiation; however, his leg continues to be in a lot of pain so please pray for this to pass. Also, I am off to the doctor tomorrow afternoon for further wisdom and guidance as to what our next steps in expanding our family will be. Please pray for wisdom on their behalf and understanding on my behalf. We do not know what path they will send us on but we are ready to embark a new journey:)</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">If you know Jason, his Jeep was his baby and very hard for him to get rid of:) The beautiful, distinguishing, one of a kind humming sound that came loud and clear from the engine is finally gone. My car was in the shop this week so I even got to drive the new Jeep...I think I could get used to that car... four wheel drive would come in handy on some of those snowy morning commutes to Greenville;)</span><br />
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<span style="background-color: white; color: #444444; line-height: 24px;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">My New Year's resolution for 2014 is either to loose 15 pounds or gain 30. </span></span><br />
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<span style="background-color: white; color: #444444; line-height: 24px;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Gain 30...WHAT!?!?! With the one exception that the "gain 30" MUST ACCOMPANY a growing baby!</span></span><br />
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09873535839987293529noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6586416558040601793.post-44667710142812816852013-12-31T12:04:00.000-08:002013-12-31T12:04:19.073-08:00A Blog!?!<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">Hello All!</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">Many of you might be sitting there and thinking, A BLOG!?! Why a blog Allyson? Well, I've thought this exact same thing many times and have decided, why not? I was challenged this past summer at a Writers Workshop Institute to write more. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;"> Yea, right...write more...with all the time that I have in my life you think I'm going to write more! As a teacher I daily ask, or demand on some days, that my students write for 20 minutes each day, but what about me? With all of the advanced technologies we as adults never write; therefore, I am putting my teacher words into place for myself and finally making this challenge come true. Better late than never right? </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;"> Also, 2013 accompanied our family with several highs and lows. I found myself sharing these highs and lows over and over again with many people, asking for the same prayers. I feel that this blog is an excellent way to share the journey of life with you all and I'm convinced that 2014 is going to be filled with many rich blessings from God above!!</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">To catch you all up to speed....here is 2013 in a nutshell:)</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;"><u><b>January 2013</b></u>- After several doctors appointments following a 11 week Miscarriage in September 2012, a large cyst was found on my right ovary. It was determined at this point that surgery was unenviable and scheduled for February 21st.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;"><b><u>February</u></b>- The large cyst was removed; however, the surgery did not go without complications and my right ovary was removed along with the cyst. The initial news was devastating and upsetting as plans for family for definitely in the future. After much consolation with doctors and many sleepless nights in prayer with God it was understood that this <u>WOULD NOT</u> end our journey to creating a family. <b>God will provide</b>!!</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;"><u><b>March</b></u>- Jason's uncle was diagnosed with stage 4 Prostate Cancer. Treatment options were very limited as the cancer was all over his body and already at stage four. Jason's cousin Melissa flew home and lived with us for the remainder of the month as she became her fathers care taker in the last weeks of his life. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;"><b><u>April</u></b>- With heavy hearts God took all of Uncle Denny's pain away and allowed him to enter the gates of Heaven. This was a huge loss for the Bradley family, yet again, something that we strangely understood with God's mercy.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;"><b><u>May</u></b>- After many conversations with my education colleagues, much prayer and consideration of the future I took a leap of faith and decided that it was time to try something new in the world of education. I applied for a First Grade General Education Position that was inside the current building that I was teaching in. To my surprise I was offered the position just ten short days later. With an anxious and nervous heart I ACCEPTED the position!</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;"><b><u>August</u></b>- Jason's best friend Bob Shoemaker was killed in a tragic scuba diving accident on the Grand River. Our hearts are able to prepare for losses of those that are sick or aging; however, never in my lifetime did I ever think I would need to prepare my heart for a loss such as this. Not only was the loss hard to swallow but I myself knew I needed to be strong for Jason. Together, with the support and prayers of many, we were able to get through this difficult time and find peace in God's plan for this as well; however, I can't say that there were not times that we questioned God or said ENOUGH:)</span></div>
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